SPEAK OUT: Chick-Fil-A Sees Backlash to Anti-Gay Marriage Stance
The company has received major backlash after its president made anti-gay marriage remarks in several interviews.
Everyone’s favorite childhood puppets are taking a stand for gay marriage.
The Jim Henson Company—creator of the Muppets—announced recently that it would no longer do business with Chick-Fil-A following recent anti-gay marriage comments made by the popular chicken company’s president, Dan Cathy.
“The Jim Henson Company has celebrated and embraced diversity and inclusiveness for over fifty years and we have notified Chick-Fil-A that we do not wish to partner with them on any future endeavors,” the organization, whose namesake grew up in University Park and attended University of Maryland, wrote on its Facebook page.
“Lisa Henson, our CEO is personally a strong supporter of gay marriage and has directed us to donate the payment we received from Chick-Fil-A to GLAAD,” the post concludes.
Their announcement came after Cathy made some very public remarks – both in print and on the radio – affirming his stance on the subject.
"We are very much supportive of the family -- the biblical definition of the family unit,” Cathy said in an interview with the Baptist Press last week. “We are a family-owned business, a family-led business, and we are married to our first wives. We give God thanks for that.”
In addition, The Washington Post reported that in a recent interview on the Ken Coleman radio show, Cathy said that “we are inviting God’s judgment on our nation when we shake our fist at him and say, ‘We know better than you as to what constitutes a marriage.”
Those comments, among others, have prompted a wave of backlash from various organizations and people – including the mayor of Boston, Thomas Menino, who told the Boston Herald he would keep Chick-Fil-A out of the city.
“If they need licenses in the city, it will be very difficult — unless they open up their policies,” Menino said.
Chick-Fil-A has 45 locations throughout Maryland, including stores in Bowie, Bethesda, Capitol Heights, Germantown, Laurel and Largo.
Now, former Arkansas governor Mike Huckabee has announced his support for the restaurant franchise. On Sunday, he created an event on Facebook encouraging people to show their support and appreciation for Chick-Fil-A.
"The goal is simple: Let's affirm a business that operates on Christian principles and whose executives are willing to take a stand for the Godly values we espouse by simply showing up and eating at Chick-Fil-A on Wednesday, August 1," he wrote on the event page, which currently has over 95,000 attending.
Will you show up next Wednesday to support Huckabee's campaign? Do you think Cathy should have to rethink his policies? Tell us in our poll and in the comments.
jag
1:26 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
WWJD? Eat mor chikin. Mike Huckabee approves this message.
Got to love Huckabee. Aways good for a laugh.
Michelle Wagner
1:42 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Kudos to the Jim Henson Co. for severing their relationship with Chik-fil-a. I love their food, but as someone who stands for equality and fair-minded principles, I cannot in good conscience eat at their restaurants anymore. In particular, I will not be eating at the restaurant in the Waugh chapel shopping center which I used to regularly frequent.
MD
1:41 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
yay? Good for you, cause you have such higher standards to "ban" something cause someone believes something that you dont agree with...
hey, another person to make the long lines shorter!
Robert Michael Simon
1:42 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
I'm in the collectibles business.If I find any Muppets,I'm going to burn them.It's long over-due that people learn to tolerate those with opposing views and not threaten violence or government bullying.
Bob
4:03 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Thanks, Robert! Great post! I find those that are the least tolerant of others are those, like michelle, with their Faux outrage. Shows how truely shallow minded, disrespectable, intolerant they are. I guess if someone has an oposing view then instantly they falsly accuse them of a whole host of things. Mentally inept.
Me, I'll eat Mor-chikn!
jnrentz1
3:55 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
So what? Who cares?
Rudy Smith
2:13 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Their food is excellent.
Jonathan
2:26 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Loved them before. Love them even more now! Good for them for holding true to their religious convictions. If the gay community can be so vocal, why can't everyone else be?
jag
2:49 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
"If the gay community can be so vocal, why can't everyone else be?"
Right, because anti-gay people are normally so reserved about it. What a nonsensical point.
Jason Winder
11:03 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
The gay community is vocal about wanting to be treated equally under the law, and for refusing to be demeaned as second class citizens. The anti-gay community (like the anti-Civil Rights community back in the day) is vocal in their hatred of an oppressed minority). There is a difference.
Bee Jay
11:18 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Where does 'hatred' come from? Not agreeing with gay lifestyle or not agreeing to gay marriage does not equate to 'hatred'. sure there's hatred out there, but no where here was it suggested.
he did nothing wrong. If you don't like it don't eat there.
God bless him and everyone like him who has the balls to say what they believe and stick to their guns.
MD
1:46 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
"The gay community is vocal about wanting to be treated equally under the law, and for refusing to be demeaned as second class citizens"
Thats not true, they want to stop anything that is against it/them. And as a group, they shouldnt have any more rights than a person has. I'm tired of their fist hands telling me what I think,say, and do is wrong. I dont care who you're buddies with, I dont want/need to know, but you are forcing it upon me and I'm going to voice it. Live the way you want, I do, but I dont have to listen to the nonsense.
Nearby
12:09 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
MD you say "as a group, they shouldn't have any more rights than a person has." You have the automatic right to marry, to inherit your spouse's estate if there's no will, to parent your children with your spouse without having to get lawyers involved to draw up special paperwork and make agreements with schools and care providers so you can do so, to visit your spouse in intensive care and to make medical decisions for them when they cannot, to not be fired because who you love and care for. MD, you have more rights than LGBT people have. And yes, we'd like gain those rights, which would not give us "extra" rights or "any more rights" than you, but rather would give us "equal" rights.
Joe Robinson
2:29 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
So Chik-fil-a is entitled to practice their free speech and beliefs as long as they align with yours? I don't give a damn one way or the other - when you go into Chik-Fil-A, they don't beat you over the head with their Christian values - they are a chicken joint. I don't like the way Wal-Mart treats their employees like shit - should we all boycott them for being too cheap to provide healthcare and a livable wage?
jag
2:46 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Huh? Plenty of people boycott Wal-Mart so that's a horrific example. I'm sure plenty of people will now boycott Chik-Fil-A. That's the point. It's called capitalism, deal with it.
Katie Zafft
3:40 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Um, Yeah. Plenty of people boycott Wal-Mart (I'm one of them). What a terrible example.
as jag indicates, thats capitalism. deal.
Michelle Wagner
3:46 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Actually, Joe, we should all probably boycott Wal-mart for precisely the reasons you mentioned. They're too huge not to be paying their employees a living wage and healthcare. And haven't you heard about the massive bribery scandal in Mexico where they paid officials for building permits? And then the institutional gender discrimination that has prevented many women from rising to senior level positions in the company? So it's more than a business just being a 'chicken joint.' Consumers have to be aware of where their dollars are going.
Bob
5:09 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
well Michelle, what is a living wage for you? They pay 12.00 an hour for PT as my son is working there, is that enough? What do you want, What is your defination of a living wage or is it something you are just spewing because you heard it on some liberal blog? By the way, I ate at Chick-fil-A twice last week and i'll eat there more this week, and i'm healthy!
Bennet Pomerantz
10:43 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Free Speech is great rite we have as Americans as long as the company you own is not involved when you make a public stand. The President/CEO of Chik-Fil-A made sure that you knew he was the CEO of the company, rather than a private citizen speaking his mind. You are right, it is a chicken joint. Lets leave the values of judeo-Christian-ism out of the chicken sandwich recipe. I do not and will not boycott his place because they make a good chicken sandwich. I just do not listen to his corporate saber rattling
Michelle
1:01 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
I havent bought at walmart or chickfila in over a decade, going on two. There are plenty of other stores and restaurants, especially locally owned businesses to support. Sure, they will never go away but that doesnt mean i have to support them financially. I firmly believe in free speech and freedom of religion, which means tolerating the intolerant. I also firmly believe in the separation of church and state. The government shouldnt interfere with businesses because of the religious beliefs of the owners. just as religion shouldnt interfere with government. No one has the right to impose their religious beliefs on others through state and federal laws. Some people think gay marriage is a sin. Fine, dont do it or allow it in their church, But they have absolutely NO RIGHT to impose their religious belief on others. Otherwise, we might as well just institute sharia law.
Bob
1:29 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
I like your remark, Michelle. "Tolerating the intolerant". Those with differing views have been doing that for many years and it certainly goes both ways with the majority. It's the "over burdening, grossly outspoken and name calling" group that seems to be intolerant of any view other than their own. What everyone seems to "forget" is that there are many people that feel the same as the Chic-fil-A president that give alot for scolarships, free healthcare, etc, to anyone. take Bill Gates, it's funny but I certainly don't hear the vitreol because he believes the same, or is it because he's also a liberal? Go figure....many are obviously hipocrits and only like to complain about those that have differing views and disrespecting them. that's a show of ignorance, intolerance and being intellectually bankrupt. Too bad you haven't eaten there, it's has good sandwiches and unlike McD's, certainly healthier.
Michelle
2:01 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Bob, I think Bill Gates supports gay marriage, he reportedly donated money to support it?
If this were just verbal arguments and attacks about beliefs it would be one thing. But religious beliefs have been imposed on others through the federal Defense of Marriage Act and state laws banning same sex marriage. These laws actively deny rights to a group of people based on the religious beliefs of others, which is a lot worse then the verbal name calling that keeps sidetracking everyone.
Bob
2:28 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Thanks Michelle, but I believe you are wrong about Bill Gates, as he gave alot, through his foundation for heterosexual marriage as well as adoption. As for your comment about "religious beliefs", I would also point out the glaring hypocricy of that comment when government stepped in and demanded the Catholic church place "birth control" on the churches workers health plans which is against their tenets of faith and original contract. Is it the same? As for the Federal law, is it the word "marriage" over "union" that is the problem? The way I see it is frankly, I don't care. I appreciate what the religious say and believe. Everyone should have the right to have a civil union or be married. Calling names, when there are others that don't have the same beliefs that they want others to have, shows the grossest of intolerance and bigotry. Read the comments decrying the president of Chic-Fil-A. It's almost akin to the brown shirts of 1938 and the Jews in Germany. intolerance of a differing view as well as defaming that person shows a total lack of any intelligence, period!
Garb67
2:33 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
So Michelle, does that mean that the only way for CFA to get permits in the liberal bastions of Chicago, Boston, SF, etal, will be to grease a politicians palm to get a permit there as well? Seems that their hypocrisy is showing. It's not ok for a CEO who honestly answered a question put forth to him to say anything against same sex marriage to build a business in Chicago, but it's ok to welcome someone who is out in the open regarding his hatred and intolerance toward that same group. I give you the honorable Louis Farrakahn.
Michelle
3:39 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Garb: That is the burden of freedom of speech. Cathy can think and say whatever he wants so long as he doesnt break any laws or infringe anyone elses rights, and in return, others are free to think and say what they want about his professed beliefs so long as they also dont break the law or infringe on his rights. The real crimes here are the laws that have been enacted to deny rights to gay people. Those laws need to be taken down. point your attacks toward the real enemy, not me.
Bob, same sex marriage/union is not allowed/recognized in many states, so in most places people have been denied this right.. It is not just an argument over calling it civil union or marriage, but whether people are allowed to do so at all. The defense of marriage act denies many benefits of marriage to same sex couples, regardlessif it is union or marriage.
This is not the same as birth control, this is not about forcing the Catholic church to perform and accept same sex marriages. This is about allowing same sex couples the right to get married in their own churches or obtain civil unions which are equally recognized by law.
Bob
7:47 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
I find it so funny that so many rail against Walmart, then turn around and buy clothes made in sweat shops at lord and Taylor and many others. By the way, it would be nice to find out what they mean by "a living wage". My son works part time and makes 14 an hour. Do they want 60k a year? Typical hypocrites.
Michelle
10:44 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
I dont know about those people you talk about, but i dont shop at lord and taylor. Thankfully, there are more businesses offering products which they have tried to obtain using fair practices from countries that have fair labor laws, and some businesses that do their best to treat their employees fairly as well. Walmart certainly had a lot of poor practices, and after Getting in trouble over the years, have moved to change their image. Here in maryland, a very progressive state, i am not surprised your son might make $12 or 14 an hour. Is this entry level? In texas, where i grew up, walmart came in, put all the small local mom and pop shops out of business, and only hired part time min wage for years. I am sure they pay better now since the scandal with illegal immigrants being paid less than min wage, but i still wont shop there! I try to find businesses that make a commitment to fair practices. There are more and more every year.
Steve O
3:03 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
I’d like to point out that Chick-fil-a’s CEO has issues with us modern folks changing marriage from how “He” defined it in the bronze age.
So all you monogamous heretics should realize you’re not welcome there either. Besides polygamy, the bible is also pretty clear that rape is an acceptable means of courtship and wives should shack up with their dead husband’s brothers, incestuous marriages are ok under the right circumstances, etc.
Clearly either Mr. Cathy is unfamiliar with what he’s proposing since we collectively think many of these beliefs are now backwards and redefined them as unacceptable despite "HIS" input, or he’s a total wackadoo…
Bob
5:12 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
who is "we" stevieboy? Sounds like you're the intolerant one to me. you, "collectively", what a joke.
Beth
8:59 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Well said Steve O. I often wonder what biblical definition people refer to when saying they support the marriage God defined in the Bible. Really?
Bee Jay
3:23 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
good for you Chic Fil A
don't back down
Rick Hudson
3:39 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
If his point of view angers you, then boycott the company. That is understandable, commendable and is certainly one of the inalienable rights given by the constitution.
What I don't understand is why completely demonize him for his beliefs just because they are different from some someone else's belief. His beliefs are his inalienable right under the constitution. The company does not refuse to serve the GLBT community, has (to my knowledge) not been sued over discrimination in its hiring or service policies and has a mission statement (per it's President) that respects all regardless of gender, race, creed or orientation.
It seems the hate mongering, name calling and intolerance here is from the people who disagrees with him, not him.
Personally, I could not care less about ther politics, they offer a darn good chicken sandwich, better fries then any competitor and the best tea around and I will keep eating there. I just wish they were open on Sundays!!!
KS
3:48 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
"hat I don't understand is why completely demonize him for his beliefs just because they are different from some someone else's belief"
Because *liberals* are such a tolerant bunch
*rolls-eyes*
Corbin Dallas Multipass
4:11 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
If he were sitting at home and just believing this stuff, no one would care.
He uses funds from his Chicken Sandwich business to donate to groups which work to advocate, support, and enact hateful policies towards gays and lesbians in this country based on a belief that marriage should only be between a man and a woman. These groups also demonize gays and lesbians for their actions (calling their relationships immoral). This ends up marginalizing many gay and lesbian couples who are in loving committed relationships. (See DOMA and, until recently, DADT).
Again, your comment makes sense only if he were just sitting around and saying things. The fact is he directs money and power towards groups that advocate for actual policy that ensures unequal rights for gays and lesbians which is hurtful and cruel. He isn't a passive observer, he is an active participant.
Bee Jay
4:15 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Corbin, his OPINION is his opinion. He just has more power with his opinion than us peions. What country do you think you're in? God bless him and everyone like him who has the balls to say what they believe and stick to their guns. It's "hateful" because he doesn't believe in gay marriage?? slow your roll... He doesn't have to be politically correct for anyone. Thank god
jag
4:31 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Rick, good points. However, I disagree that the backlash amounts to demonetization for his beliefs, intolerance or hate mongering (at least not on any wide scale). The CEO can obviously think and say whatever he wants. Everyone else obviously has the right to be angry over said bigoted statements.
The Boston mayor beating his chest about not letting them open a franchise is dumb. Of course he doesn't have the right to limit the franchise w/o merit and of course a lot of people on the Left are taking issue with him insinuating otherwise. Other than that, we're definitely in agreement that people are allowed to protest whatever they want. Whether it's Chick-fil-a this month for being anti-gay or JC Penney last month for having Ellen DeGeneres in their ad.
Bob
5:17 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
well corbin, because others don't agree with your "view" then they are bad. Wow, how totally intolerant and shallow minded of you. He has a right to donate to whomever he pleases, BTW, includes many good charities helping those less fortunate . When have you given (rolls eyes....) to anyone other than to your own wants and intolerant views.
tanisha
5:25 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Well stated Rick I'm in total agreement.
MD
1:53 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Corbin Dallas Multipass
"He uses funds from his Chicken Sandwich business to donate to groups which work to advocate, support, and enact hateful policies towards gays and lesbians in this country based on a belief that marriage should only be between a man and a woman"
And you know this, how? And I'm sure the GLAADs, and LG groups donate to the most perfect groups,
Besides, when did you start caring what a company donates to? This story is all up, because gays were put out there in the limelight and they had to show their muscles
Katie Zafft
3:41 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/mon-july-23-2012/gaywatch---holdouts-edition
Bee Jay
3:50 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
the Daily Show sucks
jag
4:03 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Bee Jay must be from Boston.
Bee Jay
4:05 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
not sure what that means. but hey, love dem Patriots
jag
4:20 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Then you didn't watch the segment, Bee Jay! A shame to miss out on the hilariousness.
Corbin Dallas Multipass
4:16 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
https://www.facebook.com/events/444598242237116/
"In honor of their support for love, equality, and the real definition of family, we're holding a NATIONAL Same Sex Kiss Day at Chick Fil A's around the country. So grab a friend (or 20) and head out to your nearest Chick Fil A! And don't forget to post photos/videos of it here! For all the world to see!"
Friday, August 3, 8PM
Bee Jay
4:17 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
that's so gay
Bee Jay
4:22 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
just tell me what time the chics are kissing
Michelle Wagner
4:27 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
typical moral double standard, bee jay. you're against anything gay and yet you're all into two women getting together. as long as it's for your own enjoyment and entertainment as a straight man, there's nothing with it, right?
Bee Jay
4:34 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
I'm sorry Michelle, WHERE do you see me have ANY thing against gays?
I'm for Chic Fil A stating their beliefs, and sticking by it.
Fact is I have nothing against gays.
and what's that have to do with not wanting to see 2 HAIRY dudes kiss but would love to see 2 beautiful women kiss??
that's human nature Michelle. Sorry, 6 billion people agree...
Michelle Wagner
4:28 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
nothing wrong with it, is what i meant to write.
Neighbor
4:40 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
There's a difference between standing up for personal freedom and attacking a minorities rights. I stopped eating at chic-something-something after I found out they aren't open on Sunday but then I started eating there again when I found out they hire a large percentage of teenage virgins that I could corrupt.
Michelle Wagner
4:48 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
alright, my bad, bee jay. sorry if i misinterpreted your stance. but do you think this is a position that's worth sticking up for? and to corbin's point, do you not acknowledge that there's a difference between holding an opinion and deliberately using proceeds from one's livelihood to fund organizations that advocate against individuals solely on the basis of their sexual orientation?
Bee Jay
4:54 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
um yes I do. He has his rights and you have yours to protest it.
I don't like some pansy burning the US Flag but he has the right (I think)... doesn't mean I won't beat his ass in the process
JustABill
10:27 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Michelle, I'm sorry but your double standard might be showing. Do you enjoy a tasty coffee beverage from Starbucks or Seattle's Best (aka Starbucks Cheap) or perhaps a nice Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream from time to time? If so then why is it OK for them to use their profits to support groups that advocate against individuals solely on the basis for their love for meat? Both my sexual orientation and my love for meat are my own personal lifestyle choices and neither offer me individual protection as a class of citizen in the same way as race or religion. Now with that in mind, why is it perfectly OK for a company to donate their profits or the CEO of a company to donate his own money to an organization that advocates on behalf of a specific race or advocates against an individual's freedom of religion? I suppose it is not fair for me to point out the shoe on the other foot when one is right and the other is just plain wrong. The people who want to make an issue out of this are well within their right to do so and that is the same right the gentleman in question was exercising and since we are not talking about Burger King you cannot have it your way.
Corbin Dallas Multipass
12:24 am on Thursday, July 26, 2012
The moral significance of advocating "against individuals solely on the basis for their love of meat (what?)" is far less than the moral significance of advocating for people who love each other the way most married couples do to not receive the same benefits as other married couples (again, benefits that can save or life or cause relief in times of great pain).
No one currently, legally, is oppressing your rights to eat meat. But right now, loving couples are not allowed to get married, and that causes harm. Your argument is prima facie ridiculous.
Not to mention comparing the choice of eating red meat to someone's sexual identity is also absurd.
Also, I tried to look for wtf you are talking about and I don't see anything about Ben and Jerry's or Seattle's Best (owned by Starbucks) advocating either for vegetarianism or against meat inclusive diets. If you could supply a link, I'd appreciate it.
JustABill
1:29 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Oh Corbin there you go again. You take one small part of my comment, twist it completely out of context, and then add your own interpretation without taking the time to fully understand the comment as a whole. So let me see if I can clear this up for your logically impaired mind. I was not equating one example to another nor did I even remotely imply that I was. I was using them as examples of how businesses and businesses owners can and will flex their first amendment rights by donating money to any cause they wish and by expressing their personal beliefs in a public forum as they see fit. It is their right to do so just as it is your right to take your business elsewhere. All I was pointing out to Michelle was the double standard she might have been guilty of if she does in fact enjoy a little B&J Ice Cream or a nice refreshing Frappuccino because S-Bux and B&J do just as she was accusing Chik-Fil-A of doing. The only difference being they give money to liberal advocates including pro LGBT groups so I guess that makes it OK for them but not OK for it to go the other way?
Corbin Dallas Multipass
8:13 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
"All I was pointing out to Michelle was the double standard she might have been guilty of if she does in fact enjoy a little B&J Ice Cream or a nice refreshing Frappuccino because S-Bux and B&J do just as she was accusing Chik-Fil-A of doing. The only difference being they give money to liberal advocates including pro LGBT groups so I guess that makes it OK for them but not OK for it to go the other way?"
Not to speak for Michelle but, yeah, exactly, that's the entire point. There's a moral objection to one and no moral objection to the other. Just because you abstain from doing business with one company you morally object to doesn't mean you have to abstain from all businesses that donate to anyone.
"I was not equating one example to another nor did I even remotely imply that I was." So then... "Both my sexual orientation and my love for meat are my own personal lifestyle choices and neither offer me individual protection as a class of citizen in the same way as race or religion."
I'm not going into the whole personal lifestyle choices thing which is a whole nother debate, but I don't think you understand what equate means.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/equate
"to reduce to an average; make such correction or allowance in as will reduce to a common standard of comparison."
Michelle Wagner
5:08 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
so you're against flag burning, but think that folks have the right to do it (sort of). and you're for the president of chik-fil-a asserting his rights to support anti-gay organizations, but i'm just trying to figure out...do you think gays and lesbians should be affordeded full and equal treatment under the law or not?
Garb67
2:48 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
I'm all for Gays having the same rights and access to the benefits and protections afforded heterosexuals. Just don't call it marriage. As an old white guy, I'm constantly bombarded with accusations that am an evil, racist, homophobic jerk, simply because I disagree with what someone else opinions. Please stop painting everyone that disagrees with you with that broad brush of hatred.
Michelle Wagner
5:13 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
you say you have nothing against the gays, but your use of the word "pansy" makes me think otherwise...that's the thing about homophobia...it's one of the last acceptable forms of discrimination and it makes some people think that the recent actions by the chik-fil-a folks, while constitutionally protected, are ok. that's what really sucks, bee jay
Bee Jay
5:16 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Pansy- to refer to someone as weak
Pink pansy- now that might have some gay undertones
Bee Jay
5:22 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
and yes, if it's constitutionally protected, it IS ok. they've done nothing wrong. leave them alone. you don't like it don't eat there.
pretty simple really
Bee Jay
5:36 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Frank, I wasn't correcting myself. I wasn't even talking about gays. I was giving an example.
Carol Gorham
9:13 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Certainly the president of Chic-Fil-A is entitled to his views, as is BeeJay. And certainly those of us who are offended by his views don't have to buy his products. When I head that Chic-Fil-A wasn't open on Sundays I admired the man for upholding his values even as he loses money. Now, I think his values aren't so admirable - so I don't think you will be seeing me at Chic-Fil-A. I just wonder why they weren't honest about why they aren't giving out Jim Henson's products anymore. They said it was kids fingers were getting stuck instead of saying that The Jim Henson Company doesn't want to do business with a company that's CEO is anti-gay. Is lying okay in the bible? Or is it only okay when it serves Dan Cathy's purposes? I mean, why didn't they just say - sorry kids, I know we promised you little muppets, but the Jim Henson Company doesn't want to do business with a company owned by a narrow-minded asshole?
Bob
4:14 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
the narrow minded asshole being jim Henson company? Or is it you, when you only want others to "jump" to your own view? Seems to me that you are as intolerant and hypocritical as can be.
Rick Hudson
9:27 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Here is the demonizing I was talking about... I would bet a mortgage payment that Carol has never met Dan Cathy. Yet straight to calling him an a-hole and Steve O calling him a Wackadoo (whatever that is). this is 2/3 of the problems here in the USA we are all to busy calling each other names and demonizing each other to bother getting anything productive done to fix our problems
Corbin Dallas Multipass
10:06 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
While calling someone an "asshole" might not be civil, neither is using your money to fight for policies which discriminate and oppress. It isn't civil to use your money to advocate for policies which keep loved ones out of the hospital room in times of emergency or keep partners from receiving insurance benefits that might save a life because of their gender. In fact, I'd say that since that's an active role in the political process, it is a whole lot more uncivil, and it causes direct and irreparable harm.
So yes, boo hoo for the CEO of a chicken company who has to tolerate being called "asshole" on a few forums for actively pursuing policies that are hurtful. His feelings being hurt are the problem with this country.
Steve O
12:30 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Wackadoo? Really, you think that was a conversation halting insult? I specifically chose a word that was too nonsensical to be taken as offensive. I wan’t demonizing him, I pointing out he doesn’t seem to know what he’s talking about, is being self-contradictory and reveals it in his statement.
For those of you who couldn’t decipher the sarcasm, he claims that we invite God’s wrath by redefining marriage from that which is put forth in the bible. But we’ve done that numerous times throughout the ages and Dan Cathy doesn’t seem have an issue with those redefinitions, just this one.
His logic can be seen through by a child. If God’s word in the bible is infallible and it says polygamy, et.al. is acceptable then defining marriage between one man and one woman is also inviting God’s wrath. He damns others for going against “HIS” will and in the same statement does exactly the same thing.
That sort of hypocrisy and ignorance about his own subject is what I was addressing. I think he has every right to say ignorant or non-logical things, I also think others have every right to call him out for it.
Bob
7:06 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Well Michelle. Looks like you got the final word. I guess asking what you believe a "living wage" is can't be asked. I guess your "facts" you asked about are my child working through school at Walmart must have strained your tender sensibilities to hurl such a childish barb. Yes, I love my kids, so maybe you don't have that in your life. Good for you, but talk about twisting ( which the original comment wasn't aimed at you but at Pete) others equated it to being an evil place as supposed in chick-fil-a in certain minds. Sorry I don't ascribe to your point of view. I see nothing wrong with either of them. Sorry.
Pete Grosso
10:14 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Wonder how this discussion would be if the President of Chic-fil-a was against African Americans instead of gays & lesbians, I'm sure it would sound very different...
Beth
11:20 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
My thoughts exactly.
Michelle
1:16 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
I am sure this argument has been replayed over and over again throughout history. Just change the topic. Slavery. Interracial marriage. Womens rights. The Bible and Koran have been misused by the intolerant throughout history as an excuse to deny freedom to others. Each person reads what they want and ignores the rest.
Bob
7:51 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
More twisting going on there. Focus on the discussion and stop projecting.
Michelle
12:37 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Says mr brag bout my sons pay at walmart when i cant come up with a better reply...
Bob
1:50 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Really Michelle? You need to act like a child when you don't have anything intelligent to say? Typical uneducated left wing crybaby. I feel so sorry that you think you are so freekin perfect. Maybe if you had some facts before you spewed your crap, you wouldn't appear to be so lame. shame that you think you are so perfect. LOL!
Michelle
2:54 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Hi bob, i have tried to use facts in my replies to you. You have not provided much in your reponses to me other than telling me to so stop twisting things and stick to the topic while at the same time you went off topic with your opinions on walmart shoppers... Who is the hypocrite? Did i rant at you for bringing up walmart? No, i responded with my thoughts. Ii am not crying or complaining, just calling you out for the internet troll that you are. So, feel free to respond with any more and whining and any more insults, i am done trying to have a conversation with you.
Michelle
3:09 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Ok, one last little gem for you Bob, a quote of yourself: "I guess if someone has an oposing view then instantly they falsly accuse them of a whole host of things. Mentally inept"
Hmm you couldnt keep yourself above this either. Cheers!
Bob
7:11 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
In addition michelle, this discussion is about chick-fil-a, not African Americans, slavery, women's rights...it's about a persons religious beliefs and the intolerant views of others. May be hard for some but you can't equate this with another....
Beth
8:17 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Bob,
This is exactly the same as those previous struggles because those opposing the civil rights of other used the Bible and religion to justify their position just like they are doing now. In the 1800's the majority of the south used the Bible and their religion to justify slavery, in the 1900's the majority used the Bible and their religion to justify segregation. Even as late as the 1960's the Bible was used to justify denying marriage rights to bi-racial people. Women's right were denied based on men's religious believes and the Bible.
So you see, what the owner of CFA is doing by donating millions of dollars to groups thay are fighting to deny gays and lesbians marriage rights does equate to the other. All those previous struggles had to overcome those who hide behind the Bible and their religious believes, just like the anti marriage equality movement is doing now. But marriage equality will prevail, just like all those previous movements did, and the world will continue to spin.
Bob
8:44 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Beth, I appreciate what you feel is happening, but I don't see it that way. He has donated millions for many causes, one being the tenant of his faith that marriage is between a man and woman. Sorry, I'm all for the equal rights, but that is his belief. If you see what others are saying, many ripe with vitriol, that they want to take away his religion? To say that he gave millions to discriminate is not accurate nor fair. There are many sites that can show both sides of the giving he's done, many inaccurate and unfair. For the record, the man was simply saying his beliefs according to his faith. The vitriol came from those wanting to belittle him and dismiss his faith and him. Sounded like the Putsch of 1938. Marriage is a state item, but please respect the faith. That is where intolerance, bigotry and hate seem to come to the fore- front.
Carol Gorham
10:28 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Hey Rick, you didn't say whose mortgage payment? Dan Cathy's?
Rick Hudson
11:08 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
@Carol... Mine!!! I'm not that brave!!! LOL
Rick Hudson
11:16 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
@Corbin... The uncivil tone is what angers people and ends good discussion about real issues. Whether I agree or disagree with you or anyone on any issue doesn't make it right for me to call them an a-hole or any other name. I respect their opinion as their's as they should my opinion. MLK never demonized, he spoke of his beliefs and worked for positive change. Gandhi did the same. Both did far more with positive words then with name calling.
Corbin Dallas Multipass
12:07 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
If you think Gahndi would say uncivil tone is the problem with India and not the oppression of the citizens by the British Government, or that MLK would say the uncivil tone is the problem with America and not the Jim Crow laws and pervasive racism that oppresses people of color, you really don't understand them.
You want to pooh pooh uncivil tone, fine, but saying that's the problem with the country is over inflating it.
And again, this isn't people calling him an asshole just for voicing his opinions, it's for his actual participation in the political and policy process that causes direct harm to real people.
Bee Jay
12:15 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
yeah, and...? that's his right in this country. whether you like it or not.
Rick Hudson
12:18 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
I didn't say the problem was the uncivil tones... What I said, probably not clearly enough, is that the uncivil tone impedes progress on the real issues. It entrenches both sides to the point neither listens to real and valid points. Thus hindering progress.
Protesting, reasonable civil disobedience and/or rational political activism would get the cause much further then calling people names.
Danielle
1:38 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
We as a nation are soo hypocritical!! On one instance we take a loud boisterous stand for freedom of speech, liberty's blah, blah, blah.....But as soon as someone voices their unpopular opinion (freedom of speech) we are ready to throw bricks at him!! Kudos to him for taking a stand in what he believes and he shouldn't be wavered by the crybabies!
jag
1:46 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Huh? What, people have a freedom to be bigots but other people don't have the freedom to chastise said bigots? No one here is hypocritical except you, Danielle. Crybabies? Yeah, right, and all those people who stood in the face of bigots to give you (women) the right to vote, etc. were crybabies, too. SMH.
Bee Jay
1:49 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
you're both right.
Bob
4:22 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
How is he a bigot if he is following his religion? Does it mean your'e a bigot for following your beliefs and spouting names at him? There are two feet and two shoes and before people start making up stories about who he gives to, find out the facts as several hypocrits here that are slaming him need to look carefully in the mirror. What they see is exactly what they show such faux outrage over. intolerance is both ways.
Beth
2:02 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
So I wonder for those who say "good on him for taking a stand in what he believes" would you be OK if an owner of a different fast food chain gave money to the Klan and spoke out against interracial marriage? It's the same thing. Discrimination is discrimination, period.
Bee Jay
10:37 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
yes Beth, I would be ok with it. I might not agree or like it. i'm definitely ok with it. Having an OPINION is not discrimination or oppression or hatred. no one has to like everyone. if someone doesn't like me for my color, I don't care. bunch of victim mentality. so weak. pathetic.
Beth
1:18 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Bee Jay I'm not talking about having an opinion, or whether someone likes me. I'm talking about funding a group whose main purpose is to deny civil rights to others. You're OK with that?
Bob
4:24 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
you're comparing apples to oranges and are non-sensible at that.
Eric Balkan
3:59 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
The key question here I think is whether you believe this is a diverse country or whether you believe, or wish, that there's just one true, holy path -- and it's OK to bash people who aren't on that path.
The reason to boycott a company is that this is really the only way to vote on management behavior. One dollar, one vote, so to speak. :-)
Pamela Torro
4:20 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
I say kudos to the Henson family for also sticking to their guns about their beliefs and pulling their product. While I do agree that Mr. Cathy and the Chick-Fil-A company should have their believes, I think it was completely in bad taste to lie about the reason the product was pulled.
Harry Bergeron
6:46 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
You left a choice out of the survey. You think we're either upset about Chick-Fil-A's stance, or we don't care. Another choice should be that we agree with it. But the Wheaton Patch is in Montgomery County, where it wouldn't occur to most residents to think that someone might agree with Chick-Fil-A.
Bee Jay
10:33 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
amen Harry. be careful, you're sure to get attacked. these loonies will tell you how your opinion is one of hate and oppression. good for you.
Jay Friedman
11:10 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Mr Cathy's beliefs have been a constant since he started the company. Never opened on Sunday, supports family and church time on that day. Very public about his beliefs. Most of the locations are franchised to local owners. He holds a high standard of operating each unit. We have the right to vote with our wallets/pocketbooks. Please remember where we live. Significant numbers of openly gay residents in our region. Many businesses openly support rights of gay people. This is not the case in every state in our country Over 30 states have recently voted to support what they term is traditional marriage, that of one between a man and a women. I do not know how Mr. Cathy's comments are playing out across the 50 states, nor do I know how much business the individual franchise owners are losing, but I suspect the news is bigger here that in some other cities.
Pete Grosso
12:11 am on Thursday, July 26, 2012
My point exactly, Beth, discrimination is discrimination, no matter if it's black, white, gay, Jewish...etc.
marilyn
11:31 am on Thursday, July 26, 2012
We are all entitled to our own beleifs! He never said he hated gays... he just stated he didn't believe that gay marriage was right! I don't believe in judism but it doesn't mean I hate them. I also believe marriage was meant to be vows between one man and one woman... and not one man and 10 women or a man and a man or a woman and a woman. That is my belief and you have no right to shove your belief down my throat. Go write your own bible and stop twisting mine!
Bee Jay
12:03 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
exactly
Bob
8:07 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
well said............
marilyn
11:51 am on Thursday, July 26, 2012
One more thing... stop being bullies! No wonder there are so many bullies in schools! That's what this country is teaching, conform to our beliefs or face the punishment!
Beth
1:14 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
You all are missing the point. We are not upset because the owner of Chick-fil-A believes differently then us. We are upset because he is using money to support an effort to block our rights. We are law abiding, tax paying citizens but are being denied the right to marry. Which carries over 1,000 legal rights, such as hospital visitation rights, filing jointly for income tax, and survivor benifits. You all can believe how you want, but don't treat me like a second class citizen and deny me my rights. I've been in a loving and committed relationship for almost 13 years now, but if I were to be hosptialized my partner could be denied visitation rights. That's why marriage equality is so important, and why we speak out against those who are denying us equality.
Bee Jay
1:22 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
so have Hospitals change their Visitation rights policy. have the tax law amended. have insurance modify survivor benefits. maybe you miss the point. don't discount what marriage stands for. the union of marriage is not available for everyone. you don't fit. the line needs to be drawn in the sand.
JustABill
1:49 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Beth, Me thinks you doth exaggerate a wee bit. 1,000 legal rights? I challenge you to list more than 100.
Now, I will also take a moment to point out a very simple fact that seems to cloud peoples perspective of the larger argument. If the LGBT community would take the word marriage out of their argument for equal rights then achieving those equal rights would quickly become a whole lot easier.
In the 2011 session of the General Assembly the most comprehensive LGBT rights bill ever was written and sponsored by a Republican and it included legalizing Civil Unions for gay and lesbian couples. This bill provided more rights for LGBT couples than the bill that was brought to the General Assembly and passed in this year's session but sadly the 2011 bill was not even brought to the Senate floor for a vote for one reason. It did not include the word marriage. Well maybe two reasons, it was of course a Republican's bill so I'm guessing the Democrats may not have wanted to give a Republican the win on the issue. So I ask this simple question, what is more important to the LGBT community as a whole, having the same 1,000 legal rights you claim a married heterosexual couple have or having less rights but using the word marriage in the legal process?
Bee Jay
1:57 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
JustABill thank you
Bob
7:54 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Just a bill, do you hear the crickets?
Michelle
10:54 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Here is the link to the GAO report that documents over 1000 legal rights that the Defense of Marriage Act has taken away from same sex couples. http://www.gao.gov/assets/230/223674.pdf.
Wikipedia summarizes it too:
In updating its report in 2004, the GAO found that this number had risen to 1,138 as of December 31, 2003.[28] With respect to Social Security, housing, and food stamps, the GAO found that "recognition of the marital relationship is integral to the design of the program[s]." The other major categories the GAO identified were veteran's benefits, including pensions and survivor benefits; taxes on income, estates, gifts, and property sales; and benefits due federal employees, both civilian and military. Among many specifics, it noted the rights of the widow or widower of the creator of a copyrighted work and certain financial disclosure requirements that include the spouses of members of Congress and certain officers of the federal government. Education loan programs and agriculture price support and loan programs also implicate spouses. Financial aid to "family farms" is restricted to those in which "a majority interest is held by individuals related by marriage or blood."[27]
MD
1:39 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
The Jim Henson Company—creator of the Muppets, The last part should be left out. They sold The muppets years ago and now, they are just a shell company. They dont do anything.
J Fife
5:13 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
I am curious how many people outraged and boycotting CFA could not wait to vote for Obama in 2008 when he too said marriage was between a man and a woman? That was until 6 months ago when he needed to gain favor of gay rights activist and boost his campaign contributions.
Neighbor
5:34 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Freedom of speech? Nobody is saying the chica-whatsit CEO isn't allowed to speak, we're saying he's an ignorant anti-gay bigot. Just like everyone here defending his anti-gay declarations under guise of freedom of speech. Check your logic.1.CEO speaks against gay rights. 2. Defenders of gay rights speak out against his opinions. 3. Chicken eating patriots start talking about freedom of speech. Freedom of speech has nothing to do with the real issue here which is that supporters of gay rights aren't going to tolerate anti-gay propaganda. The CEO of Chic-a-Nasty deserves criticism for speaking out against a minority struggling to gain equal rights. Just for a minute, think about the harm you are doing when you gang up on a group of people that just wants equal rights and to be left alone. Teenagers killing themselves, massacre's in movie theaters, Viagra, Senator's in bathroom stalls. It's all because people like you are publicly denouncing a person for being who they are. You are all sick if you think marriage between two men has anything to do with you if you aren't a gay man. Christians don't own the right to define marriage.
Bob
1:17 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
thanks for pointing the opposite out. Being grossly intolerant of others views, whether it's religious or personal, is a problem that you so pointedly show. It's also so laughable you stretch to point out the "ills of the world are everyone elses fault" only shows the total lack of any intellectually honesty. The people like "you" denouncing others is no different that brown shirts breaking glass of storefronts. It's your view or no ones, is that it? pretty simple minded of you, thanks for showing everyone else that. most people that don't subscribe to your warped view just want to be left alone to themself and their faith, it's "people like you" that expects everyone else to say we will do what you want. Sorry bub. Time to grow up. You need help with your "stretch" and certainly are quite intolerant of others. I assume, quite bigoted too. I feel sorry for you, really do.
Bob
2:46 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Must be hard to be so intellectually void of any facts, frank. I say they are liberals that are twisting from one bigotry to another.
Beth
5:34 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
JustABill I'll give you links to several websites that discuss the legal rights denied to same-sex couples because of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). This number came from a GOA report, I didn't just make it up. A 2004 report by the Government Accountability Office found “1,138 federal statutory provisions classified to the United States Code in which marital status is a factor in determining or receiving benefits, rights, and privileges.” But with DOMA same-sec couples are denied all these provisions.
Changing the name does nothing in granting any rights since most legal documents only refer to married and not unioned. Also calling it something different sounds very much like you are advocating for separate but equal, and that was deemed unconstitutional for race so why should it be OK for marriage.
Here's some links:http://www.hrc.org/resources/entry/an-overview-of-federal-rights-and-protections-granted-to-married-couples
http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2009/03/benefits_denied.html
Corbin Dallas Multipass
8:16 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
Beth, this is great reading material. Thanks.
Kate Gordon
6:07 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012
No wonder our country is so messed up. Unless you agree with someone they turn their backs on you?? Our children have such great heroes today. So sad they'll have such rage in their lives.
William G
2:59 am on Monday, July 30, 2012
What I am confused on is noone has mentioned a different concern here. Sesame street for years has been a FAMILY teaching aid for children less than 2 to older. As parents we have become secure in believing that sesame street will stay on this venue. Teaching ABC's and Counting, Equality between race, boys and girls, religion. But I do not believe they have the right to teach our children at the age of 2 or less ( some families even allow their children to watch TV at the age of 1 or earlier ) about the choice of sexual orientation. This bothers me how a company dealing with the super young of our society may be choosing to take their liberal loudly directly voiced opinion and teaching something they have no right to teach without the parents permission. I belong to no hate groups, I dont hate the people saying they chose to be gay but why am I classified as a hater if I simply don't choose to believe in their choice of sexual preference. if it must be taught it should be at home or in health education at school with parents knowing what will be taught in this curriculum. If sesame street is teaching, and many believe they are already including such things in their programming they should be forth with and bring it forward and notify the families they will be adding such things to their programming. Allowing those families to make a choice to wether their children will watch such programming or not.
Bob
8:12 am on Monday, July 30, 2012
Couldn't have said it better. The problem is, is that if you don't agree with what THEY say, then instantly you are a hater, and a whole host of other names. funny, though, it shows how truely lacking in any intellectually honesty they are and intolerant they are. Funny, it comes mainly from the left. No wonder I'm independent now.
Bee Jay
11:38 am on Monday, July 30, 2012
very well put. as you see you will get hammered for saying that... you're not a hater and you have every right to feel that way as most Americans do. But they will shove it down your throats & if you don't like it somehow you're a bully or whatever. thanks for standing up
Bob
1:51 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Thanks Frank for showing me the outlandish comments coming from the left. The fact is that many things are "jambed down the throats" of taxpayers or citizens or general people in the population with differing views regardless... You, saying what you say only goes to prove that you have 1)- no facts so you resort to childish comments or 2) have nothing with any intellectually and factual basis to report so you resort to, childish retorts or dimissive ignorant comments. Almost as good as, "Oh, YEA?"......
Bob
8:14 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Frank, think for a moment what you say. How is it being showed down our throats? My faith frowns on same sex marriage, yet people like you "push it forward". I don't care what you do in your bedroom, just don't expect me to accept it. I'll accept you for who you are, not your practice. You liberals already have "shoved" birthcontrol down Catholic doctrine's throat, so yes, there it is. I thought you would be able to remember that, but I guess not. there is intolerance and bigotry from you on that, but with your comments, I don't expect any different.
Bob
8:50 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Fact check, Frank. ...proof please or is it just another lie?
Neighbor
10:23 am on Monday, July 30, 2012
Shelter your children. The less they know, the better off they'll be when they need to make informed decisions about who to bully. I want to make sure that my kid learns about homosexuals from the grade ahead of him who use the term "gay" as a derogatory insult. That way he can go kill himself when he realizes that being gay is the worst possible thing. Too bad he chose such a disagreeable lifestyle. If only I had more money, then I could make donations to organizations that fight against the rights of gays. Then we can put them all in concentration camps and make sure they don't pass as normal citizens anymore. Those silly liberals, every time I do Gods work, they cry and complain about me being a bigot. That's insane, i have the right to denounce them publicly as much as I want.
James House
2:35 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Line for Kent Island Chik-Fil -A is out the door, Drive up has been at least 30 cars long all day. Talking with my neighbors total aggreement that the media got this one wrong. Anything for attention in the LGBT community. Talking to some teenagers in the community last night they were laughing and bragging about eating at Chik-fil-A ever since this broke. They explained "gay" means weird or disgusting. I think the LGBT could have picked a better fight, whole thing is pitiful.
Bob
8:00 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
No, just a bunch of honest hard working people standing up for their rights against a bunch of serial bullies and ignorant intolerant morons like you.
Derek Hale
1:47 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012
So just as most (if not all) restaurants are to supposed post their meals and nutritional content either in the store (if you ask for a pamphlet) or on their website, should we now ask for the SAME information from every restaurant (if not all other businesses) as to what causes they support in their corporate values?
Ronald McDonald has always appeared to be somewhat sexually ambiguous, if not gay. He wears flamboyant clothing and makeup. Perhaps he is a transvestite? We should care….why?????
This simply proves the saying that good publicity or bad publicity is still publicity
Bob
9:09 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Wow frank. At least you almost told the truth. It's not as bad as you racist remark about mayor Barry.....quite sick.
Bob
9:13 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
What, you're offended with Arabic writing on a t-shirt? Grow up! Now with your lying, it's true, you must be mentally I'll. As for the disgusting innuendo about my children, it's punks like you that give trolls a bad name.
Bob
9:19 pm on Saturday, August 4, 2012
Sorry little boy, I'm in Gaithersburg. You must be in your parents house in Bethesda,. Time to get off the Internet little boy
Bob
12:02 am on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Really? Guess again. So I signed up to read about something on a business trip. So, that's a stretch for you, believe what you want. It's obvious you are trying to get me to stoop to your level. Insult my boys, your hidden and can do that, but it only shows your lack of maturity. You really are a disgusting troll.
Bob
7:56 am on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Thanks frank, I'll take your outrage into advisement.
. Isn't it funny that you are a little like calling the kettle black with yours? Have a nice day!
Garb67
2:12 am on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Beth-In regards to your comments citing those that have used the Bible over the last 200 tears to advance their position regarding women's rights, civil rights etc., you certainly have a point. However the fact is that Marriage has been understood to be between a Man and a Women for several thousand years, preceding Christ (and Muhammad if you will). This is not to say that gays don't have the right to expect all of the same benefits as a Married couple. Call it what you want, a civil union, whatever. Just don't expect us to call a Marriage. One man one women.
Feel free to throw whatever pejoratives you wish.
Beth
12:41 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Garb67-who has understood that definition of marriage for several thousand years? Certainly not Abraham, or King David, or most of the figures in the Old Testament. They all had multiple wives, and in some cases male partners (Jonathan). Fundamental Mormons don't hold to that definition, and I am pretty sure neither do Muslims. Marriage for many centuries was nothing more than a business contract between two families and had nothing to do with love or religion and conducted in front of the town not the church. Should we go back to that definition since that's the way it had been for many centuries? It was the Catholic church that inserted religion into it as a way to get more money for the church.
All federal and state laws use the word marriage to describe the legal rights of a spouse (survivor benefits, retirement, etc), without calling the union between same-sex couples a marriage those benefits are denied to them. That's why the word marriage is important. In the state of Maryland the law that was recently passed protected churches from having to perform a same-sex marriage if their religion did not support such a marriage. The law is about legal rights, not religion.
Garb67
10:04 am on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Frank-do you have a cogent point to anything other than applying a barb to any comment written here. Your response to my comment is pointing out a spelling error? You must be a member of the Grammar Police that surf the web for misspelled words so they can show their superiority. With all of your one line retorts you must be either a comedian or an typing teacher. You also seem to have a problem with where Bob actually lives. My guess is that you would be a Baltimoron.
Garb67
1:17 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Not defensive Frank. Just tired of snarky comments by individuals who think they are superior because they know how to use a dictionary. Anyone who read my comment would understand the typo. Only you pointed it out. And Beth,the examples you cite regarding Muslims,Mormons, etc. were still between the opposite sex. I also doubt that the arranged marriages that you speak of were between the same sex. Like I said before, I have no problem with civil unions and according same sex partners with full benefit access. Just don't call it marriage.